tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-91706733236672593192024-03-05T09:24:07.677-05:00Slow by LittleWe get things done...slow by little. Explore our "slow by little" endeavors, from raising two adorable kiddos, to cooking experiments, DIY projects to travel. Although not as much travel as there used to be.Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.comBlogger96125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-53935845144860651362021-03-17T16:03:00.003-04:002021-03-17T16:11:43.659-04:00Looking Back on St. Patrick's Day<p>I was on a roll with posting, for a moment, last year! Then, the days faded into sameness, as I waffled between apathy and outrage (maybe more on that another time). I just had no inspiration or motivation to blog. But I've been thinking lots of thoughts, lately, so I thought I'd give it another go.</p><p>Today is St. Patrick's Day! Up until I met Kevin, I never gave it much thought. I would wear green and whatnot, but no Irish meals, music, or adult beverages. But Kevin is half Irish, and soon after we started dating, he started hosting St. Patrick's Day parties. After a few years, it was no longer "Kevin's" St. Patrick's Day Party, but "our" St. Patrick's Day Party.</p><p>The party has evolved a lot over the past 15-ish years. In the early days, our friends would kick a keg of Guinness, or Murphy's or Beamish, if we could get one of those. Everyone would chug what Google tells me I can call an "Irish Slammer"...although you might know it by a more insensitive name. You know the one...where you drop a shot of Irish Cream and Irish Whiskey into an Irish Stout, knock it back, then probably make some more questionable choices. Our friend, Darren, would lead us in a rousing rendition of "The Barley Mow," during which you take a drink during each verse, finishing a pint of beverage, usually Guinness (or similar), by the end of the five-minute song. Don't think you'd finish it? You would, because at the last verse, Darren would yell, "FINISH IT!" and what else could you do but comply? I tried this with a root beer one year, and holy cow, it was so uncomfortably fizzy. Stick with the stout.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="266" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/MdK1VVc0hHU" width="320" youtube-src-id="MdK1VVc0hHU"></iframe></div><br /><p>Anyway. Times change. None of us drink that much anymore or can hang that late. We stopped getting a keg because Kevin and I were drinking the leftovers into July, when no one really wants to drink an Irish stout. The thought of the day after an "Irish Slammer" is enough to make me think I may have had my last one. Many of us have kids now, so I put out St. Patrick's Day crafts and books, and we make sure to have kid-friendly alternatives to corned beef and cabbage, and booze-free desserts.</p><p>It's still fun. We still listen to Irish music and talk and laugh. The kids play. We reminisce about being young and fun, and having the time and energy to hang out all the time. It's nice to have this time to catch up. And we have new friends (although not that new, anymore!), now, too, and it makes my heart happy to see people from different parts of our lives chatting, having fun together, and maybe even becoming friends, too.</p><p>Here we are, <i>this </i>year, though. Our St. Patrick's Day Party was the first "thing" canceled last year. At the time, we thought for sure we'd make up for it by the end of summer. But then we missed birthday parties, our annual Octoberfest and Winter Wonderland Celebrations, too. Here's hoping our year of missed celebrations is bookended with this St. Patrick's Day. </p><p>Not that we aren't still celebrating! My favorite corned beef recipe is in the oven, I tried my hand at Irish Brown Bread today, and made an "Irish Slammer" cake. We'll eat some Irish cheese and crackers for an afternoon snack, and enjoy a Murphy's and some Irish music this evening. I do have to admit, though, we will probably skip the "Barley Mow." </p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcdu4EN23NK-2fXLIxxQDkZMJR8-zdPqJhp4BI1268GEiIx9w__4LjjJpVlr5VwA8TZ5aIxy8z3QQdSPcMTXGFpZCn1TY2UksEOO4Y5DH49mzj4kt7ClwiY01BxHfOJ1iUozsymJmjSig/s2048/IMG_8174.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img alt="Miss A giving Mister P a hug, both dressed in green with shamrocks" border="0" data-original-height="1365" data-original-width="2048" height="266" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcdu4EN23NK-2fXLIxxQDkZMJR8-zdPqJhp4BI1268GEiIx9w__4LjjJpVlr5VwA8TZ5aIxy8z3QQdSPcMTXGFpZCn1TY2UksEOO4Y5DH49mzj4kt7ClwiY01BxHfOJ1iUozsymJmjSig/w400-h266/IMG_8174.JPG" title="One of my favorite St. Patrick's Day pics, from 2017" width="400" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">One of my favorite St. Patrick's Day pics, from 2017</td></tr></tbody></table><br /><div><br /></div>Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-20643140948603650992020-05-26T07:25:00.001-04:002020-05-26T07:25:54.287-04:00There is Nothing I Don't MissOver the past few weeks, I've seen a few posts on Facebook to the effect of, "What did you expect to miss during the quarantine that you don't?" <div><br /></div><div>The first time I saw one, I paused and considered, waiting for a revelation. What had seemed important to me before that was now trivial? The "aha" moment I anticipated didn't come. A new, minimalist perspective did not awaken in me, as I sort of expected it to.</div><div><br /></div><div>The truth is, there is nothing I don't miss.</div><div><br /></div><div>There are some things I don't miss <i>as much</i> as I thought I would. I don't miss taking the kids on outings as much as I thought I would - but a part of that is that they don't seem to miss it as much as I thought they would. I thought we'd go stir-crazy, but it's actually been...fine.</div><div><br /></div><div>I, of course, miss the obvious things. Chatting at preschool pick-up, browsing Target, taking the kids to a playground or library. Sitting outside at a restaurant on a warm day, chatty and relaxed, not worrying about dinner or dishes. Oh, and not calculating every move when I go to a public place, and not wearing a suffocating mask. And, boy, could I use a haircut. </div><div><br /></div><div>But, I also miss unlikely things like squeezing in frenetic errands during school time. Dragging Mister P to the grocery store or Costco, because of the traditions we had woven into these trips. The questionable sanitation, but undeniable fun of bouncy houses. I even miss the morning hustle, because its cacophony culminated the blissful calm of two kids at school.</div><div><br /></div><div>Maybe...I don't miss the kid junk scattered all over the back of the car. Or paying almost $3 for a gallon of gas. Not that it matters too much, considering I'm down just half a tank over the last two months.</div><div><br /></div><div>The perspective that has changed for me is that I've been reminded how important it is to celebrate human relationships. I was keenly aware of this my last year of high school; in fact, I wrote a college entrance essay about it. I knew that my time with my school friends was fleeting and coming to a close, and I wanted to hug that time close. Since the pandemic, I've realized how much "friend-time" (and family-time) I'd been putting off until later...when we're not so busy, when it's more convenient, when we get around to it...and here we are, with so much time, and not able to spend it together. </div><div><br /></div><div>I think about Mister P's last morning of preschool. I ran around, doing a thousand errands with my last 2 hours of unencumbered free time for who knows how long. It felt necessary. One of my stops was for a coffee at a local coffee shop, where I saw a group of moms from a class that had graduated from our preschool - I knew most of them. I imagine they will always be thankful they spent that morning together. I wonder if I should've spent my morning differently. Probably. If only I’d known.</div><div><br /></div><div>So, when the world comes safely back online, I’m doing all the things and seeing all the people. Hopefully, with a renewed sense of joy and gratitude.</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3JzTFJgFAnuGOWLAnPh1LtAjYCEFNb09Npo-9l2jriSxgm4xZwra5PjvgijlInuglWwL2UlZM3UR-SkvDjIDZ4800z_C0o-qDwmTdk8vHs0xkXwXQpcNMFSKnDkmTWfgxRWkAi0isb-s/" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: center;"><img alt="Heart latte art" border="0" data-original-height="741" data-original-width="968" height="306" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3JzTFJgFAnuGOWLAnPh1LtAjYCEFNb09Npo-9l2jriSxgm4xZwra5PjvgijlInuglWwL2UlZM3UR-SkvDjIDZ4800z_C0o-qDwmTdk8vHs0xkXwXQpcNMFSKnDkmTWfgxRWkAi0isb-s/w400-h306/01FB12E1-136E-486E-9972-844C388068A1.jpeg" width="400" /></a></div><div></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-76363686755003980702020-05-21T07:51:00.000-04:002020-05-21T07:51:13.722-04:00Violet SyrupJust this past week in Maryland, local strawberries finally started popping up for sale. Strawberries love the warm sun, and we just haven't been getting a lot of that, lately. If you live in a place where you can get local strawberries, do it. There is no comparison to even the reddest of berries bought in a clam shell from California or Mexico. <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimrMCo-W7khm4AgrzNFUz_4NgPCCWgoO9-xvI4xe1aOHOxfq4p6cmRBRmXz-5uNfJPQbKvsCLwohpQ2DxtxpFLtfj2rZMxZkOk3L5WTngzRxDJH1m2dV8t897dJk-5P7hnKtcZm-sDwiY/" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3024" data-original-width="4032" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimrMCo-W7khm4AgrzNFUz_4NgPCCWgoO9-xvI4xe1aOHOxfq4p6cmRBRmXz-5uNfJPQbKvsCLwohpQ2DxtxpFLtfj2rZMxZkOk3L5WTngzRxDJH1m2dV8t897dJk-5P7hnKtcZm-sDwiY/w400-h300/IMG_4124.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div><br /><div>I bought these, but here is a funny story - the first time I picked berries, maybe ten or so years ago, I had a romantic image of berry-picking. I pictured myself wearing a sundress, hat, and flip-flops, dropping berries into a darling little basket. Lucky for me, the day we went was drizzly and gross, so I wore jeans, a windbreaker and tennis shoes, and learned that fruit-picking was not a dainty activity.</div><div>
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I get why some people view fruit-picking as a ridiculously romanticized activity. I understand why people mock it as something Pinterest Moms insist their families do so they can capture those Insta-perfect moments, and maybe theoretically teach their kids a lesson about where food comes from. It can be hot, buggy, and time-consuming. But I actually really enjoy it. I don't love gardening, but I love gathering. One of the first days Mister P went to preschool this past September, I raced a half-hour to my favorite fruit farm to get in an hour of raspberry picking unencumbered. Once I start picking, it's really hard to stop. On the way out, I'm always picking just "one more" berry. The "gathering" heritage resonates with me, but I can see why it might not with everyone!</div></div><div><br /></div><div>I got the itch to pick a few weeks ago, when I saw a friend post pictures of violet syrup she had made from foraged violets. Hmmm....our yard was carpeted with violets...</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeDY5W2b2l7lqPga1SWS61741tCG1WniQFMDVD-TcJ8XJs-7aaggQlQAOCELDro6Zii0Ixk3Uu7lm2xMA6DeF0TdIklE1Ju6w2UmKL-IMgOO6yskOcOPgcZKlEonTt15NVsJuzgykNXHg/" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="grassy field sprinkled with purple violets" border="0" data-original-height="3024" data-original-width="4032" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeDY5W2b2l7lqPga1SWS61741tCG1WniQFMDVD-TcJ8XJs-7aaggQlQAOCELDro6Zii0Ixk3Uu7lm2xMA6DeF0TdIklE1Ju6w2UmKL-IMgOO6yskOcOPgcZKlEonTt15NVsJuzgykNXHg/w400-h300/IMG_3114.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>I'd like to imagine myself as a dainty ingenue, again, wearing a delicate sundress and floppy hat, and wiggling bare toes in the soft, green grass as I gracefully pop the blossoms off of the wild violets in our yard. Perhaps you could imagine me that way, too, instead of a thick, middle-aged mother of two wearing jeans, a stained sweatshirt, and garden clogs.</div><div><br /></div><div>It was time-consuming, but really pleasant on that warm spring day. And the violets looked so pretty!</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMRvOfMioIrLOAeZm88UFZviA5otFH0vQt6QCWa44lG11B6tRKbwwFMYtPQfq4CjmKDMSKQ66CrifH-G7Uc5HDnXg4YVD8UxLojR2pya3SQizb6f89YSYmYuBc7SqKHrc0aqBYvqvFUEY/" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="collection of violet blossoms" border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMRvOfMioIrLOAeZm88UFZviA5otFH0vQt6QCWa44lG11B6tRKbwwFMYtPQfq4CjmKDMSKQ66CrifH-G7Uc5HDnXg4YVD8UxLojR2pya3SQizb6f89YSYmYuBc7SqKHrc0aqBYvqvFUEY/w300-h400/IMG_3109.jpg" width="300" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>To make the syrup, I looked at a few different recipes. Many say to remove the calyx, the green thing at the bottom of the flower that holds the petals on. I had just spent an hour picking two cups of violet blossoms; I was not inclined to spend another one dissecting them. I may have been able to do it more easily when I initially picked them, but didn't realize I should, so...oh well. I did find a recipe or two that said it was fine to leave them on. So I did, and made a violet tea that sat overnight.</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMjJd1v39yaCYqdeor3XEPOcLWh_s2BEAgri5_2d4X1ZCD6rQmIJ4KcYVcXuZkFvz4sWRO6ItDqXcw4Sp0MPXuFa4bHqvWe048flJCPdasQk35WiDIYOVvVyKP65lPz0VPtZxIYW6iOBo/" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMjJd1v39yaCYqdeor3XEPOcLWh_s2BEAgri5_2d4X1ZCD6rQmIJ4KcYVcXuZkFvz4sWRO6ItDqXcw4Sp0MPXuFa4bHqvWe048flJCPdasQk35WiDIYOVvVyKP65lPz0VPtZxIYW6iOBo/w300-h400/IMG_3116.jpg" width="300" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>I strained it, and cooked it with sugar to make the syrup. It wasn't really a bright purple, but adding in some lemon juice brightened it up...it's hard to see, but...</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkNssztqhgumd325Lqj6bhyphenhyphen7x524DbbweGKFPfENiCoyU_ie2nKNxGUVodNHZpelnauo5kSIAXivok9jKKSUUtu_AEUhtM_7LHySX54m_dvEUfmjEcD6toz4xua85FOYqFyE63uvQN7X0/" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkNssztqhgumd325Lqj6bhyphenhyphen7x524DbbweGKFPfENiCoyU_ie2nKNxGUVodNHZpelnauo5kSIAXivok9jKKSUUtu_AEUhtM_7LHySX54m_dvEUfmjEcD6toz4xua85FOYqFyE63uvQN7X0/w300-h400/IMG_3134.jpg" width="300" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>The verdict: I think it smelled kind of grassy instead of sweet, which is probably due to those stinking calyxes. So, I might have been biased from the get-go, but I didn't think it had much of a flavor...just mostly sweet. Maybe I could've tried next to a batch of plain simple syrup to see for sure. I did use it in lemonade and also to make a violet soda with our SodaStream.</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4WSxHrkYXC3k5f-acd-2b5Co_gTjfuKY6IoZXd_Got5njP6EW_0wsKSNeyVVmfCJuxypQ3E8eFd3Os2-ptViDQvTHHxn0cHCVJCXasPawKwuHaQf21eNtYJHHqApBcH8RT-oJ_KjZ_Zs/" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4032" data-original-width="3024" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4WSxHrkYXC3k5f-acd-2b5Co_gTjfuKY6IoZXd_Got5njP6EW_0wsKSNeyVVmfCJuxypQ3E8eFd3Os2-ptViDQvTHHxn0cHCVJCXasPawKwuHaQf21eNtYJHHqApBcH8RT-oJ_KjZ_Zs/w300-h400/IMG_3459.jpg" width="300" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>Not bad with a little gin and a squeeze of lime. 😉</div>Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-38225157009757006282020-05-01T08:17:00.001-04:002020-05-01T08:17:50.928-04:00This, too, shall pass...Right around one month in to this quarantine, I noticed a shift. At first, it was just at our house. Mister P was especially sensitive and needy, wailing over seemingly little things and wanting to talk to someone almost every waking moment. I was getting tearful everyday, alternating between being lonely and wanting to be alone. Then, I saw it in my Facebook feed, too - lots of parents reporting that their kids' behavior was breaking down, and moms admitting their sadness, as well. I looked at our family, and looked at my friends and acquaintances online and realized that one month seemed to be some sort of milestone for a quarantine - and maybe other types of stressful times, as well. Did the novelty wear off? Were realizations sinking in?<br />
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I'm sharing what I noticed to let you know that, if you felt like things starting to fall apart around the middle of April, you, for sure, are not alone. </div>
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I'm hesitant to share what continues to make me tearful everyday, when I know that others have far worse situations. Our family has so much to be thankful for, always, but especially now - Kevin is able to work from home, I am able to wrangle/teach the kids, our immediate family is low-risk, we have a yard for the kids to play in...I'm well-aware. </div>
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Friends, I'm super-sad about my little boy missing his last months of preschool.</div>
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We have been a part of the amazing community at Forest Hill Nursery School for the past four years. It is a cooperative preschool, and as a stay-at-home mom, I have loved the chance to be in the classroom to see my kids socialize and learn. I love all those kiddos, the teachers, the routines, and the other parents. For the last two years, I've been on the executive board, and, maybe most of all, I have loved being able to work with grown-ups and use the grown-up part of my brain. </div>
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Since Mister P is my baby, I know all the things he is missing now. Getting psyched for kindergarten. The field trips. The class parties. The special year-end traditions. Coming into the part of the year when the kids are mature enough and close enough to really play together and flourish. These kids have always loved to play together outside after school, no matter the weather. The last day they played together, Friday, March 13th, was a warm, sunny day. If I had known how likely it was to be the last day, I would've let him play until it was time to get Miss A off the bus. </div>
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He doesn't really know what he's missing. But I do. And I cry for all those special memories that we won't make. I know, I know - we are making other memories. And, it's just preschool, and in the long run, he will remember very little of it, anyway. Here's the thing - I'm really sentimental; I would've cried, anyway. But this is not how this stage of our life was supposed to end. I want those end-of-year rituals to give <b>me</b> closure, to help <b>me</b> transition to the next part of this road to adulthood.</div>
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But, as I sit here, crying, I think of the high school seniors who are missing this most special part of their high school career. I know not everyone has a good high school experience, but I did, and this would have devastated me. And I think of the essential workers and the medical personnel, and people who can't weather this as well...and people who were suffering before this, like the homeless and refugees...and I get frustrated with myself for feeling so sad. We will move on and be okay, but not everyone will. I guess we (I, really) need to make the best of our situation, and do we what we can to support others.</div>
Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-38632481733906660852020-04-21T09:25:00.000-04:002020-04-21T09:27:03.232-04:00Easter on Lockdown<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This Easter was the first holiday we have spent as a family in our own house since Easter 2013. As much as we missed spending time with family, it was nice to not have a long drive and to cook a holiday meal in my own kitchen. We worked hard to make it special for the kids, since they wouldn't be seeing either set of grandparents this year.<br />
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We started early with a special breakfast Saturday. Kevin had a sleepover with Mister P in his room Friday night, and I guess I had promised pancakes at some point. It worked out, because one less complicated thing to cook on Sunday.<br />
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I mentioned in my grocery store post that I am an absent-minded shopper...meaning that I often forget things, like whipped cream for this little bunny's tail. Luckily, I had picked up this the last time I was at Trader Joe's a few months ago - shelf-stable whipping cream! It worked out well. I added some maple syrup for sweetness, and probably could've added a little more.<br />
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Saturday was a big cooking/baking day. I started working on this <a href="https://betsylife.com/samoa-bundt-cake/" target="_blank">Samoa Bundt Cake</a>. It calls for dulce de leche for the frosting, which I also forgot to add to shopping list. So, I spent 2 hours and 4 cups of milk making my <a href="https://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food/views/homemade-dulce-de-leche-395011" target="_blank">own</a>. It wasn't hard, but time-consuming, and using all that milk made me a little anxious.<br />
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I also adapted the cake recipe, because it called for two different batters to be a marble cake. One of the reviews, though, said that the textures of the two different cakes were a little odd together, and since we have people in our house with strong opinions about textures, I opted to just double the chocolate batter. And then, I also only had to make one batter. 😀With toasted coconut and chocolate drizzle on top, the cake was a hit.<br />
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I also spent Saturday baking Pascha bread, an Eastern European Easter bread. We had read a book about Ukranian Easter eggs, and a lesson I found to go with it suggested making it and included a recipe. It looked complicated and time-consuming, but what else did I have to do? But, then, my cousin posted that she had also been making Pascha bread, and when I mentioned I was going to, she shared her grandma's Slavak recipe. Swoon! Passed down grandma-recipes are the best. And, while I'm not sure it came out the same as the Ukranian version would have, it was much simpler and still delicious!</div>
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The final (actually, the first, because I made it on Friday) "fancy" thing I made was <a href="https://smittenkitchen.com/2017/05/potatoes-anna-new-cookbook-preview/" target="_blank">Smitten Kitchen's Cacio e Pepe Potatoes Anna</a> from her second cookbook. It's like a scalloped potato cake, or, galette, if you like to be fancy. Other than me being terrified of using a mandolin (I enlisted Kevin to help), these were actually pretty easy and came out really well. I substituted some garlic olive oil for part of the butter, which I think added I nice contrast to all the other "simple" foods we had. It really didn't need a lot, though - if I had used more, it would've been too much. The trickiest thing is that you need to flip it twice - once out of the pan onto a plate, then onto the serving plate. I took a picture in the pan, because I had my doubts that the flipping would go well, but I guess there was enough butter and oil that it slipped right out.</div>
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So, dum-de-dah-dum....here is the completed meal, with local ham from <a href="https://www.andyseggsandpoultry.com/" target="_blank">Andy's Eggs</a>:</div>
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Lest you think all we did on Easter was cook and eat, the Easter Bunny came with baskets and hid Easter eggs. He also brought a LEGO bunny for Mister P, and paint-your-own ceramic bunny for Miss A. Perfect projects for these two! </div>
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I also insisted they watch the 1996 Walt Disney World Happy Easter Parade (our marching band was in it!), and remembered how annoyed I was that the hosts talked over most of the song. Oh well. Mister P was unimpressed. </div>
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Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-88235130751074598292020-04-14T15:54:00.000-04:002020-04-14T16:03:33.008-04:00Adventures in Grocery ShoppingLast week, I went grocery shopping for the first time since Maryland's stay-at-home order. I had gone one other time since school's closed, but it was before the order, and at a smaller, less-popular store. This time, I went to Wegmans, which is huge and in our well-traveled shopping corridor. When I came back, I felt as though I had been on a quest to a strange land. I am typically one of those slightly-unusual people who enjoys grocery shopping, but even I felt battered when I returned. I found it so stressful to try to buy enough groceries for two weeks at one go. Because I have favorite places to get certain items, and am also an absent-minded and spontaneous cook, I often go 2-3 times a week...especially since Patrick has been in preschool. So, trying to imagine what would get us through the next few weeks was daunting.<br />
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Repeat for another hour and 15 minutes, substituting other items. This internal dialogue exhausted me. But, my kids were thrilled to get these giant marshmallows when there were no regular-sized marshmallows.<br />
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I am lucky that I have a hearty immune system and try to be a rule-follower, because my brain is not wired for the kind of vigilance we are supposed to have now. It seems like most people I know are good at being vigilant; I am not. I see people posting about being very conscious of how close people are at the grocery store; I only was when I remembered I should be. Luckily, Wegmans was very good at prompting me to keep my distance and sanitize my cart and hands.<br />
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I know these things, but they are not always at the front of my mind. Not to say that I wandered around, completely oblivious, but I just think I'm not as conscious of it as some others. And I won't even go into the stress of decontaminating everything when I got home.<br />
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<br />Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-28440269271372627622020-03-29T11:19:00.000-04:002020-03-29T11:19:40.607-04:00Quarantine 15Most people are familiar with the "Freshman Fifteen." A student goes off to college, and faced with unhealthy all-you-can eat cafeteria options and countless late-night pizza (and other) parties, gains 15 pounds their first year. Of course, not all first-year college students gain 15 pounds. I am sure many people will take this time at home to cook healthier foods and focus on their exercise routine. As for us, I am cooking more...but not necessarily healthier ("Hey! Look at this cake on Pinterest! Heck, don't have anything else to do today, might as well bake it!"), and not walking to the bus stop or running errands is definitely cutting into my step count. So, after two months of tracking my diet using Noom (more on that another time, maybe) and being somewhat successful, I fear I am looking into the face of the QUARANTINE FIFTEEN (and yes, I know we do not truly have a quarantine, but that's what everyone is calling it, and it rhymes). Or, as I've also heard it called, of course, the COVID-19.<br />
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<li><a href="https://thepioneerwoman.com/cooking/corned-beef-and-cabbage/" target="_blank">Corned Beef and Cabbage</a> - I started making Pioneer Woman's Corned Beef and Cabbage a few years ago, and it would take a lot to convince me to make it any other way.</li>
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<li>Poultry Stock - While cleaning out our freezer, I found a chicken and turkey carcass, so I boiled them with some veggies and herbs to make poultry stock. I later made regular and GF chicken noodle soup with it. Calling it just "chicken" soup to keep it simple for the kids. </li>
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<span id="goog_1090494146"></span><span id="goog_1090494147"></span><br />Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-88623646097009254352020-03-20T13:29:00.002-04:002020-03-20T13:30:15.055-04:00The Other Side of the DoorwayI look at the bouquet of flowers on our dining room sideboard that I bought during my last grocery store trip last Friday. Just something to brighten things up during our two-week quarantine. I feel like I bought them in another lifetime. It was the same when, yesterday, I pulled a receipt out of my pocket from eating lunch out with Mister P last week after shopping at Costco. Or when I look at the shirt I bought there a little more than a week ago, when closing school seemed like a vague possibility, but not something that I really expected to happen; at least, not so soon. These things are like relics from "before," and I wonder when everything will be from "now."<br />
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I have a vivid memory of, a few days after Miss A was born, standing in our kitchen, overwhelmed and delirious with exhaustion. I had the distinct feeling of having walked through a doorway that I could look, but not pass, back through. I saw an enormously-pregnant, but relatively well-groomed woman using her brain at work, casually shopping, laughing with adults, cooking, and chatting with her husband after dinner. I missed being her so much, I cried. I wanted to go back through the door, but here I was. I could only look.<br />
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I feel like we all have passed through another doorway. I'm not sure what this new dimension holds, yet. It seems so unsteady. I didn't know then, either, but I know now that that moment was the lowest, or close to it. I guess my fear is that we are not there, yet, or even close to it.Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-19153004837496682302020-03-18T20:46:00.000-04:002020-03-18T20:46:10.766-04:00Well, I Guess This Is Growing UpI've wanted to write a COVID-19 post since last week, but have had too many unrelated thoughts tumbling through my brain to come up with anything cohesive. I'm not certain this will be be cohesive, either. But, I'm able to tie in a post that I've wanted to write since before I stopped working seven years ago, so, at least, there's that. <br />
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When I worked at Howard Community College, I participated in a program called Step-Up, where volunteer faculty and staff provided life-coaching for students. For about two years, I coached a young woman who was 19 years-old. One day, she told me about a weekend trip she planned to take with her friends - her first trip without any "adults" (in quotes since a 19 year-old is technically an adult, anyway). I remember thinking about what a milestone that type of trip was on the road to becoming a Grown Up (tm). And, it got me thinking about when, really, does one become a Grown Up (tm)? From the very beginning, kids are on a path towards independence, but at some point, they cross a threshold and become a Grown Up (tm).<br />
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So, for me, it certainly wasn't turning 18. Going to college? A little, but not really. I was still mostly financially dependent on my parents, their house was my permanent address, and I didn't have to cook my own meals. Moving from Pennsylvania to Maryland, renting my own apartment, and paying my own bills? Maybe that was it. But things have happened since then that made me "grow up" more...getting a full-time job with benefits...settling down with partner ...buying a house...having kids...<br />
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Dealing with COVID-19 with school-aged children and aging parents is a new, unique "growing up" milestone. The stratagizing and planning. Trying to maintain a sense of calm and normalcy that we've taken for granted. Finding the balance between being honest and earnest (like, really, please, wash your hands and do NOT PUT THINGS IN YOUR MOUTH), and not making the kids feel anxious or scared.<br />
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A friend commented how the world feels like it did after 9/11...surreal and full of uncertainty. How were we supposed to feel? What were we supposed to do? I remember that. But now, even though maybe we have a little more control (do we?), almost 20 years, a mortgage and two kids later, I feel like more is at stake and I am worried about more. Twenty years ago, I would've looked at this current situation with more curiosity and less anxiety. Now, I don't like not knowing what will happen. I don't like not being able to plan into the future. I'm worried about kids' education - more other kids than mine. I'm worried about small business owners, low-wage workers, and health care professionals. I'm angry about our Administration's incompetence and wonder how/if things could have been different.<br />
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This is a new world for us. I don't know if we're ready for it. I think this will be more than our children's generation's lunar landing or Challenger explosion. Even though the world changed after 9/11, I think this will have an even greater impact. I hope we rise from the ashes on the other side of this.Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-74236892928699257062020-03-09T11:15:00.000-04:002020-03-09T11:30:16.323-04:00Gluten-Free Diet, an IntroductionFor as long as I've known Kevin, he's had digestive issues. There have been periods of time when the issues have bothered him more than others, and there have been times when it has really interfered with life. Over the years, I've read about a variety of diets and how can they can impact the digestive system, but, honestly, I found it all overwhelming. "These foods will help reduce inflammation. Unless you have a sensitivity to X, then your belly will be on fire. And also, those foods you have a sensitivity to are healthy and delicious." And, of course, other than dairy, we hadn't pinpointed anything that caused a problem. I told him, "Look, if you can figure out what kind of diet will help you, I'll be happy to cook it." I just wasn't up for playing detective for someone else's gut.<br />
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Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-86920726781980136632020-03-08T09:54:00.000-04:002020-03-08T09:54:28.368-04:00Hello? Is anybody out there?I've been trying to figure out how to introduce this post.<br />
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In any case, since the New Year, I've been thinking about resurrecting this blog. It's been nearly 6 years! The almost-toddler I last wrote about is now a sweet and sassy seven year-old! And, the little boy who was not yet even a twinkle in his daddy's eye will be five in June! I've thought about restarting this several times, but now that both kids are spending more time in school and playing together independently, I might actually have...time? I'm going to give it a shot. I do feel like maybe I missed sharing a lot of good content from the last six years of being a stay-at-home mom, and maybe that is partly inspiring me to publicly document my final months in this stage of life. </div>
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I also question whether people even really read blogs anymore, since so much is documented on other forms of social media. This thought almost made me not bother, but...I read through some old posts, and you know what? I kinda like blogging. The landscape has changed since 2014, but maybe some folks will kinda like reading it, too. </div>
<br />Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-64924434893307745002014-05-29T16:39:00.001-04:002014-05-29T16:42:58.783-04:00An Octopus Garden PartyI know, months have gone by since I've posted! I keep taking pictures and videos, and filing ideas away under "Blog this Later" in my head. But when I finally sit down in the evening, my brain goes all foggy and the best I can do is catch up on Facebook or take a Buzzfeed quiz.<div><br></div><div>This past weekend, an expecting friend allowed me to throw her a baby shower. I say, "allowed" because she was initially kind of anti-shower, but recognized the benefit. After I promised no cheesy games, activities, or fuss, she warmed up to the idea and even suggested a theme: An Octopus Garden, because that is the theme for their nursery.</div><div><br></div><div>At first I thought, "What is <i>in</i> an octopus's garden, anyway?" But I needn't have worried, because, Pinterest. So, we hosted An Octopus Garden Party, with cupcakes and mocktails.</div><div><br></div><div>I found some perfect table supplies at Party City, with blue and green sea creatures. I had the most fun making the octopus decorations, though. Because, of course, there are octopus in an Octopus's Garden.</div><div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGjTvv5ap8_yELlovSDobv_ecmtzpaf_WT2VIRRQtShSBLKDW9rzPkWxJrT5WhbKfvRBq0_9P9109Wd-lyhxawiiHE0xKxZLzbGbTnbK6KYyhL5rdOSK0A3PsJSKKdLk6qcoehJtM_XEk/s640/blogger-image--1342959409.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGjTvv5ap8_yELlovSDobv_ecmtzpaf_WT2VIRRQtShSBLKDW9rzPkWxJrT5WhbKfvRBq0_9P9109Wd-lyhxawiiHE0xKxZLzbGbTnbK6KYyhL5rdOSK0A3PsJSKKdLk6qcoehJtM_XEk/s640/blogger-image--1342959409.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">This guy was easy. We saved toilet paper rolls for about a month. I painted him and five of his siblings in light blue, sea green, and coral. I meant to take a picture of the whole family, but forgot. After letting the paint dry, I cut eight slits about halfway up for the arms. I put a rubber band around the center of the tube to make sure I cut the arms (fairly) evenly.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMY-RVY3KhpeIJepT18HmrerfzY9tqnGBlXF0EkwF4BMkRm_XkeXSS2_fAxsVnJ_OFPHlUjK3DpxTE7V1cZ8758OBFpn0q7rx2wwltfqrUsa73fIulExvQcI8JSmDg5jt32VK47d4Bsy0/s640/blogger-image-188487238.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMY-RVY3KhpeIJepT18HmrerfzY9tqnGBlXF0EkwF4BMkRm_XkeXSS2_fAxsVnJ_OFPHlUjK3DpxTE7V1cZ8758OBFpn0q7rx2wwltfqrUsa73fIulExvQcI8JSmDg5jt32VK47d4Bsy0/s640/blogger-image-188487238.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Then, I gently rolled the arms out. I wanted to put something on the bottom of the tentacles to be like the suckers, and settled on pom-poms. A little hot glue:</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggEc9AVBp2nK8SafMYSZGpHmWvhML1Bsm8g20Q1R7pD8krKVpQm03OUgfhm4eiTvMwHFXFNzKe1s_SJhKNtpRQmW_cn6sS_U2_X_ilXGXdGczNSmPbQGw_chDDwazpIsQOXiLLLw1Awt0/s640/blogger-image-1563277996.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggEc9AVBp2nK8SafMYSZGpHmWvhML1Bsm8g20Q1R7pD8krKVpQm03OUgfhm4eiTvMwHFXFNzKe1s_SJhKNtpRQmW_cn6sS_U2_X_ilXGXdGczNSmPbQGw_chDDwazpIsQOXiLLLw1Awt0/s640/blogger-image-1563277996.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">I originally thought I'd use them the whole way up the arms, but one at the end of each was perfect. And, of course, the googly-eyes.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHTmSX65s5TI4SeecwQll5G19XZJuC95XNWhoG_iqMjRItvUX5CoT-85c174VoX232PEQyStasuNFftYKpfPX0K3KXitCdvV81sUYdjJGIrWjJlQKBbZUD2GZaWsNjlM6hfZOm8zf48Js/s640/blogger-image-2034405480.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHTmSX65s5TI4SeecwQll5G19XZJuC95XNWhoG_iqMjRItvUX5CoT-85c174VoX232PEQyStasuNFftYKpfPX0K3KXitCdvV81sUYdjJGIrWjJlQKBbZUD2GZaWsNjlM6hfZOm8zf48Js/s640/blogger-image-2034405480.jpg"></a></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">I also made these guys:</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh23GN7SDV_uvw-YrcTzvt1arNbZqi5XC5GISrAlnuJbsiEh8lcWCZNbXrVsL20E1fPYde0lmPZlpdUX0-0XAakYcFLbXfSCBX6gc-RmPYHc7w5Pbn1z9eTFDfSguUQFzRQ9YZ0PA7jzLY/s640/blogger-image-59556769.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh23GN7SDV_uvw-YrcTzvt1arNbZqi5XC5GISrAlnuJbsiEh8lcWCZNbXrVsL20E1fPYde0lmPZlpdUX0-0XAakYcFLbXfSCBX6gc-RmPYHc7w5Pbn1z9eTFDfSguUQFzRQ9YZ0PA7jzLY/s640/blogger-image-59556769.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">My intention was for them to be octopus, but I think he might look more like a jellyfish, so, you know, whichever. These felt more time-consuming to me, and required a bit more an assembly line approach.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">First, I painted paper plates, although I certainly could've used colored paper plates. I also thought paper bowls would've worked well.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">I then cut all the lengths of streamers for the tentacles - I just guessed at the length, and then used one as a template for the rest. I think they're about two feet long. 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There's a tiny fish bowl (a candle holder from Michael's) with assorted colors of Swedish fish, and the homemade cupcakes have either a gummy-lobster or gummy-whale on top. I thought maybe we needed something to balance out the cupcakes, so I made fresh fruit bouquets...maybe not in an underwater garden, but garden-y, yes? And I can't believe it didn't occur to me to get goldfish crackers to put in the tiny fish bowls, as well! Oh well.</div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">I lived dangerously and did plan one (possibly) cheesy activity. Ok, two, but one is more interesting than the other. The less-interesting one was just to have slips of paper out, asking people to give advice to the expectant parents. However, I also encouraged people to give advice or their favorite inspirational quote. 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Today's 60-degree weather was like the child who you're just getting ready to send to timeout, but then does something really sweet and adorable. So, Miss A and I headed to the <a href="http://www.harfordcountymd.gov/parks_rec/Parks.cfm?ParkID=102" target="_blank">Lyn Stacie Getz Creative Playground</a> after we ran some errands today.<br>
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What she has taken her time with, is crawling. We've watched our friends' babies, three and four months younger than her, start scooting right past her, while Abby sat like a lump. She's aging out of her class at <a href="https://www.mygym.com/" target="_blank">My Gym</a>, but I'm keeping it on the down-low. How can she go on to the next class when half the kids in <i>this</i> class are crawling or even walking, and Abby is still just a world-class reacher? It really is kind of amazing how far she can reach - Kevin and I swear she has "Go-Go-Gadget" arms, and she can fold herself in half to reach something she wants. Or, if she can't reach it, you can almost see her thinking, "Oh well," as she decides to play with something else, like her pant legs. Our pediatrician actually suggested that Abby might just be lazy, and we couldn't disagree.<br />
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We weren't particularly worried. Crawling is actually not an "official" developmental milestone, and the age-range for first steps is up to 18 months. Kevin has probably been a little more anxious to get her moving than I have been - he won't have to chase around the house once she gets going! But, on the other hand, that baby is getting heavy, and it might be nice to not have to carry her everywhere.<br />
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I always thought it would be our cat or the iPhone that motivated her to crawl for the first time, but it was her books! I think she may be more of the bookworm type, anyway.<br />
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Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-74034244114485959102014-02-12T22:21:00.001-05:002014-02-18T07:54:56.085-05:00Nursing Dreams and Dream FeedsTonight is Kevin's last "dream feed" with Abby. A dream feed is a bottle you sneak to your baby in her sleep, right before YOU go to bed, with the hope that the little extra will be enough to keep them asleep the rest of the night. We didn't really start off with that intention. At the <a href="http://slowbylittle.blogspot.com/2013/04/our-breastfed-baby-girl.html" target="_blank">beginning</a>, when we gradually weaned to breastfeeding from full-time bottles, and were still trying to get in 9-10 feedings a day, Kevin wanted to hold on to this one. It was one less nursing session I had to figure out how to fit in, and Kevin loved this special daddy-daughter time.<br />
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When I mentioned in an online mommy-group that we were still doing dream feeds around six months, some gently mentioned that most babies dropped the dream feed around this time. Kevin practically turned pale when I told him this. At this point, Abby was sleeping through the night, while most breastfed babies wake at least once during the night for a feeding for at least the first year. "So," I told Kevin, "maybe the dream feed is like, her night feeding, so you might as well keep giving it to her." We agreed to wean her off of it around a year.<br />
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Abby is nearly 14 months old, now. We've kept it a little longer than originally planned, because our girl had some other plans.<br />
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See, <b>I</b> had planned to breastfeed at least until I get pregnant again, if I do. Which, if things go as <b>we </b>have planned, would be around 18 months. I figured she'd probably wean herself around then, anyway, since my supply would most certainly drop. I always intended for her take the lead, though, and while I don't love the idea of nursing while pregnant, I would've tried it for her. I imagined we'd drop a feeding every couple of months until we were down to one or two, and gracefully stop.<br />
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She did take the lead. She surprised and confused me by weaning during her eleventh month. It was very unusual, because it was early (before 12 months), and abrupt. Both of those usually signal a nursing strike (where a baby won't nurse for a few days for some reason, then hops back on the train). Around Thanksgiving, she began biting more often than not after nursing...then at the beginning of nursing, repeatedly, so no nursing actually happened. Within a few days, it was every feeding except for the morning one, and then it was that one, too. <br />
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I tried for weeks. All time, at first, then once or twice a day, then every few days. I tried every trick in the book to discourage biting. I was firm, I was calm. I offered her a teether, I fake cried, I put her down, I left the room. As it stretched from a two-week, "Well, maybe this is just a long strike" into Christmas, I had to accept that our nursing relationship had ended.<br />
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Mid-September.</td></tr>
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I think you may have to be a mother, but maybe not, to understand how devastated I was. I want to tell you, in case you've been through it and you can tell me I'm normal, or in case you're going through it and I can tell you you're normal. I loved nursing, once we got the hang of it. I know not all mamas do, and that's okay. I loved the calm, the sweetness, the excuse to just "be" with my baby. It was special to nurture my baby in one way no one else could.<br />
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When I wasn't sure if she was striking or weaning, I was almost as emotional as I was postpartum. I'm sure it was partially hormones. But a lot of it was also the "not knowing," and the intense feeling of rejection every time she would bite me or turn her head away. One of the worst things was, she had just learned the sign for milk, and would do it. I'd offer her the breast, and she'd bite. But she kept asking, and it broke my heart. I don't think she thought the sign meant what I thought it meant. I cried <b>a lot</b>, and I cry thinking about it now. I would think crazy, irrational things like, "She doesn't love me," or, "I bet she never did like to nurse." I had to stop trying, because I couldn't take her refusal. I was so heartbroken.<br />
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I'm mostly past it, now. Although it happened in an unusual way and at an unusual time, I know it's just the first of many things that I'm going to let go of as a mama, as my baby girl grows up. <br />
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Which brings us back to the dream feed. When Abby's first birthday rolled around, we still didn't know what she was doing with this nursing business, so we thought it would be good to continue the dream feed to make sure she was getting enough milk. Now that she's pretty well established with cows' milk, I'm weaning off of pumping, and her daddy is weaning from the dream feed. He's been gradually skipping more nights in between feeds for the past few weeks. At first, we thought she'd wake up hungry, but not a peep. Not a single time.<br />
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I know it's a little the same for him. Probably without the crazy hormones, though. But that special, quiet, daddy-daughter time that has become so familiar to him. How he still holds her like a tiny baby when he feeds her, although she has grown so much since he started. How he has cuddled and snuggled her the same way before putting her back into bed, although it's been months since her head would rest comfortably on his chest. He will have to let go of this, too.<br />
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Our little girl still needs us. She'll just need us in new ways as she grows up!<br />
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Abby had a spectacular first birthday weekend. She started off the day by playing peek-a-boo with a yet-unnamed moose from her Great Grandma.<br />
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Maybe we'll call him Peekaboo Moose?<br />
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Then, we had lunch at <a href="http://www.bbdairy.com/" target="_blank">Brooms Bloom</a>. No ice cream for Abby, though. Just mac and cheese and chicken salad. We wanted to take her to Christopher's Train Garden, which is right there. Unfortunately, she was terrified of the loud train noises. Maybe next year!<br />
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Grandpa made a special lasagna for Abby's birthday dinner. Lasagna is one of her favorites!<br />
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Now, I had assumed that Abby's first cake would be at her party. This didn't sit well with her Daddy, who insisted we get her at least a cupcake. Since this gave us an excuse to get cupcakes from <a href="http://flavorcupcakery.com/" target="_blank">Flavor Cupcakery, </a>I agreed.<br />
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We put on Abby's party hat...<br />
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As you can see, she wasn't a fan. This might have influenced her lack of enthusiasm towards her cupcake.<br />
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She just didn't know what to make of the icing. She kept grabbing it and trying to fling it behind her back. She eventually ate a little, but wasn't thrilled. Kevin wondered if she thought the icing looked like...something that usually comes <i>out </i> of the other end.<br />
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Then, it was present time!<br />
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Also, Grandpa made her this beautiful table and chair set. I knew he was making it, but I didn't know he was making something quite this lovely!<br />
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After all this excitement, she still had a full-blown birthday party with all of her friends that weekend!<br />
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I love the picture of these kiddos playing! They will be priceless one day!<br />
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Unfortunately, Grandma and Grandpa had to leave early. But not before Abby played with balloons with Grandpa!<br />
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It was funny - Abby's gifts were quite indicative of the adults in attendance. When you invite a bunch of teachers and librarians to a one-year-old's birthday party, you're bound to end up with a bunch of puzzles and books, which we love! Abby also got an awesome baby laptop, as well as adorable shoes from the geneticist-now-stay-at-home-mom-who-loves-shoes. Really, it was easy to remember who gave what! </div>
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Her opinion on cake had also not changed, although we did get her to try it, and, by the end, she was really sort of going for it! I think it was too dense for her to really get a bite of! As Danielle said, though, she was the first kid anyone has seen that cried at her birthday cake.</div>
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What a busy day, with so much excitement! Miraculously, she did take a short nap in the afternoon after cake. Then, it was PJs and snuggle-time with Daddy.<br />
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Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-12833603991396443552014-01-08T22:12:00.000-05:002014-01-08T22:22:19.480-05:00A Winter ONEderland Unfolds...About a month before Abby's birthday, <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/ask-amy-parent-pressures-gay-son-to-change/2013/11/12/a46984d0-4815-11e3-bf0c-cebf37c6f484_story.html" target="_blank">this story</a> floated around my Facebook feed. My intent is not to start a social/political discussion, but it really struck me. It's a letter to an advice columnist from a mom who thinks her son has decided to be gay (and she would like to convince him to change his mind) because he is trying to get back at her for forgetting his birthday three years in a row. The focus for most people, of course, is her non-acceptance of her son's homosexuality, which I think the columnist responded to beautifully. However, seeing as how this came out a month before Abby's birthday, and I had already been planning her birthday party for a month, I was absolutely befuddled that this mom had forgotten her son's birthday, you know, the <i>day she gave birth to him</i>, for not one, not, two but <b>three</b> years in a row. Even if you and I have different opinions about gayness, I think we can probably agree about the birthday thing. Now, this woman says she is "very busy with work," and I am a recovering event planner turned stay-at-home-mom, but still.<br>
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But anyway, the point of this post is not to give social commentary on homosexuality or to go on about what a horrible mother I think this woman is, but to discuss about how I <i>may</i> have gone a <b>little</b> overboard with my own little one's first birthday. No chance I would forget this girl's special day a single time. <br>
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At the party, a friend said, "I think people just do those crazy parties so they can blog about them." I don't know if our party was "crazy," but I'm blogging about it. If you're bored by party-planning, just skim for the pictures or skip this one all together. I'll post about the actual birthday goings-on soon.<br>
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<a href="http://slowbylittle.blogspot.com/2014/01/about-month-before-abbys-birthday-this.html#more">Read more »</a>Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-40700257182089173272013-12-28T09:12:00.000-05:002013-12-28T09:14:15.561-05:00The Lady with the Baby, RepriseI realize I haven't written about any fall holidays, Abby's birthday,or Christmas. In light of my last post, though, I'm inspired to write about an incident that happened about a month ago, right after Thanksgiving. Festive posts to come soon!<br />
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Last February, I wrote a <a href="http://slowbylittle.blogspot.com/2013/02/the-lady-with-baby.html" target="_blank">post </a>about people's reactions to tiny babies. Maybe it's because Abby was/is particularly adorable and charming, but I suspect most people with small babies have people say these types of things to them. It usually opens with something about how precious/adorable the child is, then sometimes follows up with some vaguely ominous warning about the future. "They're cute until they start talking back." "Just wait til she starts moving." "Can I trade my teenager in for her?" I usually just smile and nod, because what can you say? <br />
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The Sunday after Thanksgiving, Kevin and I went with friends to the Christmas tree lighting in Bel Air. Afterwards, he, Abby and I had dinner at a local restaurant. Sitting near us was a large group of what appeared to be an extended family, including two preteen girls. Abby was being very charming (as usual), and was smiling and waving at everyone. As we got up to leave, one of the mothers at the table turned to us to tell us how adorable Abby was. I smiled graciously and thanked her, but then she added something unusual.<br />
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"It just keeps getting better and better," she said. "My girls are so much fun. Did you see that dance routine they did? (We had, and it was awesome.) They made that up while we were waiting in line to check out on Black Friday. People always tell you to enjoy while they're babies, but things are just so good now."<br />
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I thanked her. It was so refreshing to have someone say this. I had already sort of figured out that each stage has its own challenges and rewards, but to hear this offered up by a stranger was a gift. I understand the message to "enjoy them now," but why does it so often have to be followed by, "...because you might not enjoy them later!" Which is more or less the implication. I know my sweet girl might not always be sweet, but she'll always be MY girl and doing something wonderful. Or developmentally appropriate that will eventually be something wonderful, in any case. :)Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-87151072897880632392013-12-27T15:14:00.002-05:002013-12-27T15:15:21.325-05:00The Best Christmas GiftA little more than a year ago, we got the best early Christmas present.
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Recently on Facebook, I posted <i>this</i> picture, comparing last Christmas to this Christmas:</div>
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and a friend of mine commented that she didn't get nostalgic for the early days with her kids, the way a lot of mothers do. I replied that there are things here and there I get nostalgic about, but that, despite that precious photo from Christmas 2012, I am certainly <i>not </i>nostalgic about the newborn stage. I'm reminded of a conversation I had with a pregnant friend - she said, "Birthing sounds horrible." I paused, because in a way, birthing <i>was</i> horrible, but it was also wonderful (which is what I told her), because at the end, you get this incredible little person to fall in love with. What is <i>really</i> horrible, I thought, hours after our conversation, is having a newborn. And the newborn stage lasts <i>much</i> longer than labor. I would have given birth two more times to skip the first month. But more on that another time. Again, it's the same thing. It's painful - in a different way than labor, for sure - but, in the same way, wonderful, because now I have a happy, playful, twelve-month old, who is a joy. And, in the grand scheme of parenthood, both labor and the early days are so fleeting.</div>
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So, while I don't long for those early days of two-hour stints of sleeping, one-hour nursing sessions, and forgetting to eat until 5PM, when I look at pictures from last Christmas, I am reminded of what a special time it was. I remember feeling so blessed to have a family that brought Christmas to us so that we could focus on our new baby, and not have to miss the holiday. So thankful to have plentiful hot food available, at least for a few days. On Christmas Eve, a light snow fell, and I remember hugging my sweet, eleven-day old baby to my chest, and looking out the window, feeling like everything was magical. "This <i>is</i> Christmas," I thought.</div>
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And then, we tried to read <i>The Night Before Christmas</i> to Abby, which did not go nearly as magically as I'd imagined it would. It ended with tears (Abby's and mine), and Kevin reading the book to his brother's dog, Stanley.</div>
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Stanley enjoyed it. Things went a little more smoothly with Abby this year.</div>
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The point of this post? To capture memories I didn't have the energy to get down last year, I guess, and a reminder to live in the moment with this little one, and be realistic about where we are and where we've been. And to celebrate the blessing of our little girl and wonderful family!</div>
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It should come as no surprise that Abby is "Daddy's Little Girl." Really,every post about her could be titled, "Daddy's Little Girl."</div>
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It's fairly obvious. After all, many, if not most, little girls are Daddy's Little Girl.<br />
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After I took Abby's ten-month pictures the other day, I just took a few random shots of her laying on the blanket. And, while I've always thought she looked more like her daddy, in a few of these, she CLEARLY looks just like her daddy.<br />
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There's a bit of "Palm" in the smile. That's why it's one of my favorites. I know she'll continue to come into her own look for awhile, yet. No matter what she looks like, though, one thing is for sure.<br />
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She'll always be Daddy's Little Girl.Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-84458319810686292142013-10-15T22:31:00.000-04:002013-10-15T22:31:53.679-04:00Past and Future TravelsI've been looking for inspiration to write a post, lately, and was ready to just do a, "Look! Abby's Still Cute!" post (in case you're wondering: she is) but came across something tonight that rekindled an idea for something I've wanted to write about since January. I wanted to write about what it was like, after giving birth. How so many things, physically, mentally, and emotionally, were unexpected and unexpectedly hard. And how it seems like no one talks about it. Or, if they talk do talk about it, it just doesn't sink in to the expecting-parent brain, because it's clouded with gleeful anticipation for the coming bundle of joy.<br />
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Before I gave birth, I thought that I was probably predisposed to Postpartum Depression (PPD). I've never been Depressed (with a capital "D"), but have had bouts of melancholy and a little bit of a family history. I wasn't too worried about it, though, because I knew I would be willing to get help. Also, there's a difference between knowing intellectually that you might get Depressed after giving birth, and another actually going through it. Having said that, I still don't think I had PPD, just a serious, lingering case of the "Baby Blues."</div>
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I'll write another time about how I cried at EVERY. THING. One day, a brochure for Viking Cruises came in the mail (We get these all the time. I don't know why.) As Abby slept, I sat in the living room, flipping through the pages that described fanciful cruises through exotic European ports, and started sobbing. We loved to travel. What had we given up by having this baby? We would never get to go on one of these cruises; never see these beautiful places. I felt a tremendous sense of loss for our old life.</div>
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Tonight, I went into our craft room to find some thread, and I stumbled upon my travel journal.</div>
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This is a blank book my friend Liz gave me for Christmas from a market in Budapest when we visited her grandma there in December 2000. Since I had just finished six-weeks student-teaching in London and spending weekends traveling through Europe, I decided to use the journal to keep track of where I had traveled and wanted to travel. </div>
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The best <i>is</i> yet to be. It is here now and it keeps coming. For all the challenges, sacrifices and exhaustion, I am generally happier than I've been in a long time. And, while Kevin and I might never be the same "Us" we were before, I'd like to think that we still have the "Best Us" ahead of us.</div>
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Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9170673323667259319.post-10049167826493151492013-09-12T10:48:00.000-04:002013-09-12T10:48:54.211-04:00Staying Busy and SanityIt's hard to believe that Abby will be nine months old tomorrow! Seems like she just turned eight months...<div>
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Eight months is a very serious age.</div>
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I initially felt a little bit at a loss when we got back from our Outer Banks vacation in July. Having family around to play with Abby all the time sort of threw me off. I realized that Abby and I were both ready for a routine. We've slowly been developing one over the last two months, and I'm feeling pretty good about it, now. Of course, it will probably change any day now, as Abby continues to change.</div>
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The main thing, for my sanity, is to make sure we have activities planned for everyday, and to make sure we get out almost everyday. Being a stay-at-home mom in a world where most people aren't is very lucky, but can also be very lonely. Getting out and about helps! We try to go to Diaper Gang, a baby story time with rhymes and songs, at the <a href="http://hcplonline.org/" target="_blank">Harford County Library</a> every week. It's fun. Abby seems to love it, and I get to talk to other mommies. I've also joined a great online community, <a href="http://www.chesapeakemommies.com/" target="_blank">Chesapeake Mommies</a>, that has a lot of useful forums and a fairly active activities calendar. We go to as many play dates and activities as we can. </div>
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Grocery shopping and lunch with Daddy on Thursday (usually). <a href="http://www.lllofmd-de-dc.org/HarfordCecilCounty.html" target="_blank">La Leche League Breastfeeding Cafe</a> at Wegmans second Monday of every month. Free coffee with purchase of bulk beans at <a href="http://www.coffeecoffee-online.com/" target="_blank">Coffee Coffee</a> on Monday. Not that I buy coffee beans every Monday, but you get the idea.</div>
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We've started going for a walk everyday, even if it's just to get the mail. When it's hot, like it's been the last few days, we just go up to our mailbox and back (we have a very long driveway). If it's nice, we'll do the whole street.</div>
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When the temperature hits the mid-80s, it means it's time for the baby pool! It's a little easier to manage than taking her in the regular pool, and, in any case, we've been losing an algae battle for the past few weeks. I fill the pool up in the morning during her nap, so the water has a chance to warm up, and make sure I set it in a place where there will be shade later in the day.</div>
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I had forgotten about her swing for a couple of weeks, but we've rediscovered it, and she loves it!</div>
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About a month ago, we took our annual Ulmes family vacation to the Outer Banks. <br />
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Abby went to the beach for the first time, and dipped her toes in the ocean. She wasn't a big fan, as you can see below. But my parents tell me that when I was a wee one, I was scared of the ocean, too. A wave snuck up and startled me, and I was supposedly afraid of the ocean for years. I don't remember ever being afraid of the ocean, though, so I apparently got over it, and I'm sure Abby will, too.<br />
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That's just one of the many old Girl Scout songs we've been singing to Abby, and just two weeks ago, she got to actually go swimming! I mean, as much as dipping a six-month old baby in a swimming pool counts as swimming.</div>
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Last summer, we had so much fun seeing our friends' daughter Daphne experience the pool for the first time.</div>
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Abby is 13 months younger than Daphne, so she's almost the same age Daphne was at this time last year. So, we were looking forward to Abby loving it just as much. Abby, on the other hand, was a little apprehensive.<br />
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Daphne, however, thinks it's even more fun this year.<br />
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She tried to give Abby a high-five for trying the pool, but seeing as how they are 19 months and 6 months old, respectively, it didn't quite pan out. "A" for effort, though. Her heart was in the right place.<br />
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I wouldn't say Abby <i>hated </i>the pool, but she definitely wasn't the little water baby I was hoping for, like the one in this video:<br />
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As I mentioned in the Father's Day post, another first for that weekend was Abby's first solid food. Or, as I like to call it, "The Day the Diapers Changed." Only they really didn't, because she hasn't really eaten anything. Much, anyway.<br />
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We're trying something called <a href="http://wholesomebabyfood.momtastic.com/babyledweaning.htm#.Ucui8_msiSo" target="_blank">Baby-Led Weaning</a>, or BLW. In this case, "weaning" doesn't mean "weaning off of breast milk," but rather "weaning onto food." The idea is that babies can handle appropriately sized and prepared whole foods and don't need to be spoon-fed purees. It's supposed to foster independence and adventurous eating because baby chooses what she wants to eat and figures out how to eat it. Something about it intrigues me, so we're giving it a go. We're supposed to start with finger-shaped fruits and vegetables, because babies can pick them up and still have a bit to eat sticking out of their little fists.<br />
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We decided to start with pieces of avocado. Nice and soft, and mild-flavored.<br />
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Abby was all ready!<br />
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I don't think she knew quite what she was ready <i>for, </i>though! She didn't really acknowledge anything in front of her, at first, so I tried handing it to her. She just squished it in her fist. Kevin's mom offered Abby a piece on her finger, which Abby seemed to enjoy. After wiping her own mouth (really!), she picked up a more solid piece of avocado and gnawed on it. I don't know how much she really ended up eating, though - I was unable to detect any evidence in the diaper! But that doesn't mean that she didn't get any - she did get to taste it, at any rate. And, for now, food is all about exploration for her.<br />
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Since then, we've tried steamed broccoli (good because it has a handle!), cucumber, banana, steamed asparagus, and boiled potato. She's not terribly interested in any of it. She just looks at us, clearly wondering what happened to the toys we used to keep on her high chair tray during meals. She was perfectly happy to stick those in her mouth and gnaw on them, but regards the foods much more warily. It takes a lot of encouragement - like putting the food in her hand and guiding it to her mouth - to get her to try it. She has seemed to enjoy gnawing on cucumbers and potatoes, and licking banana goo. </div>
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I keep reminding myself of the mantra, "Food before one is just for fun." I can't wait until she gets more interested and eats more voraciously!<br />
<br />Ms. Tracie Leehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09415834914209109451noreply@blogger.com1